You are reading one super cool blog right at this very moment.
That’s right, I’m officially awesome.
Because the fabulous Tabitha over at ConcreteIslandista has nominated me for a Sunshine Blogger Award, and now I’m more awesome than ever.
Ok, ok, I’ll reel it in a bit. I know, the confidence is overbearing. I do that sometimes, and then I annoy myself. So I gander that I’m also annoying others. Then again, you could just chalk it up as a cute and endearing personality trait that makes you want to come back and read more of my stuff.
There, I just convinced myself, and you, that I really am awesome.
On a serious note, yes I sometimes get serious. It’s really heartwarming and an honor to be thought of and nominated for this, especially from someone whose blog I truly enjoy reading. So thank you Tabitha for the nomination!
Here’s the scoop on this award.
This nomination is from bloggers to bloggers. The award is given to those who are inspiring and bring sunshine into the lives of their readers and fellow bloggers. (I’m gushing)
- Thank the person that nominated you and post a link to their blog on your blog
- Answer the 11 questions from the person that nominated you
- Nominate some other bloggers for this award and give them 11 questions to answer
- Notify the bloggers you have nominated.
- List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award logo
Now that we know what the award is all about, let’s get to it! Drum roll…. The QUESTIONS!
Why did you start your blog/business?
I started my business 6 years ago because I wanted the freedom of working for myself. I have always been a hard worker and it didn’t make sense to give that away to someone else in order to build their success when I could do it for myself.
As for the blog, I’ve been blogging on and off for about 10 years as a creative outlet. I really got serious about it in 2016 after my brother passed away and I needed to do something to help me deal with grief and not lose my mind. Sometimes I wrote about the pain and others I wrote about lighthearted things to block out the sadness. No amount of therapy could ever do for me what this has done.
What has been one of the most exciting things you have done with your blog/business?
I’ve been able to travel the country full-time with my family for Â four years. That kind of freedom is amazing and I still sometimes have to stop and look around and recognize how amazing that is.
What has blogging or your business taught you?
Business has taught me that patience and perseverance are the number one thing that will help you succeed. After being in the online marketing industry for over 15 years, I can tell you who in my circle of friends and colleagues has the 2 Ps. They are the ones who continue to succeed and have longevity. And that doesn’t mean they don’t have failures. Most of us have failed miserably at several businesses and projects, but we pick up the pieces and start again. The ones who give up will never be able to answer the “what-ifs”.
Do you have any guilty pleasures?
I have a ridiculous penchant for picking out and watching B Movies. Once I start watching one, and I know it’s super crappy, I just can’t stop myself. I will watch until the very end when I feel totally dissatisfied and annoyed for wasting the time. I get it from my father who used to have an addiction to renting movies. He would go to the rental place down the street every Friday after work and come home with 5-10 new flicks, most of which were made for rental (ie: crappy B movies). I’d grab them after he was finished and I’d watch them all.
And that is the story of how I became addicted to B Movies.
If you could give your younger self advice, what would it be?
I would tell myself that I was just as good as the non immigrant kids. I would tell myself to ignore the bullies because one day they would be in dead-end jobs chugging a 6-pack every night to forget how crappy their lives were and you would be slaying.
What has been your favorite travel destination?
I am in love with Oregon and Maine. They are both very eco-friendly places and great for people like me who love nature, hiking, mountains, rivers, snow. I could go on an on about them. They each have awesome little beach towns with a ton of personality and really cool architecture and history. They both have towns named Portland which are great places to discover on bike and foot. Both Portlands have amazing food, and the people watching, especially the hipsters, is second to none. If you want a good idea of what Portland, Oregon is like, watch Portlandia, because the stereotypes are hilariously spot on.
What are some of your favorite topics to write about on your blog?
Categorizing my blog has been very difficult, because I write about whatever I want to. So the best way to describe it is a “lifestyle blog” even though I’m not thrilled with that. I write about my business, my culture, things I know, things I’m learning, my travels, my love of coffee, my running, my family and dealing with grief. It’s a mouthful, I know.
One of my favorite topics is writing about entrepreneurship and how it relates to my culture. I started a series after writingÂ What It Means To Be aÂ Latina Entrepreneur that features other Latina Entrepreneurs like Alex Tabar, and that has been very satisfying and entertaining.
When are you at your happiest?
When I’m in nature and when I’m with my family. I also love when we go to camping rallies with our friends and spend hours talking around a campfire while our kids run around and play in the woods.
Are there any social causes you are passionate about?
I’m passionate about so many causes it’s ridiculous. There’s so much work to be done in the world.
Stepping onto soapbox.
One thing I am very passionate about is children, parenting and our school system. As a former PTA president, I was at my youngest son’s school several hours daily, and I got to see what most people who don’t see. Teachers have zero authority and coupled with terrible and nonexistent parenting, it’s a nightmare. We place our kids, in good faith, in a system where they are co-mingled with kids whose parents just don’t give a damn and we hope for the best.
If you get a great teacher, you’re golden, because they really put a lot of blood, sweat and tears into giving your kids a good education. Not to mention they have to balance that with teaching basic manners to the ones who show up without them and as the years go on, that number grows.
I was lucky that I was always there, but the things that our kids deal with on a daily basis from bullying and drugs, to being exposed to very adult issues and situations is alarming. People don’t even realize that we went from the schoolhouse approach where everyone knew each other and the teacher was an integral part of the community to this institutionalized system that resembles the prison system. The cafeteria: like prison cafeterias. Going outside for recess: like prison recess.
It feels as though the goal is to create little test-taking drones.Â We are fed the notion that it prepares them for the real world, but the only place in the real world that is like the school is prison.
This wasn’t so terrible 30, 40, 50 years ago, but it keeps getting worse. And we keep throwing money at it and creating programs and testing and yadda yadda. But I honestly don’t know that any of that will matter. The fact still remains that the core is bad and nonexistent parenting and I honestly don’t know how an institution of that magnitude could effectively change that.
I could go on forever, so I’ll get off my soapbox now.
What is one fact about yourself that many people don’t know or only people close to you know?
Oh boy, there’s a REASON why most people don’t know these things. Â I’ll stick to the safe stuff and leave my skeletons in my closet where they belong all nice and snug.
I travel around the country full-time with my husband and our youngest son who is 14. We have been blessed to have the opportunity to see this great country and meet some amazing people. It has taught me that most folks are decent and we all have many things in common regardless of where we stand politically. Right now there is a lot of division, but if you stop reading all the internet memes and really just TALK to people, you’ll find that each party will become enlightened to the other’s views and positions. And sometimes, you’ll even figure out that the nonsense that is fed and promised to us by the political machine is just plain old marketing.
What are your future goals?
Total world domination, of course.
Seriously, I have so many crazy goals. After I finish building out myÂ empire (yes I’m serious), I plan to semi-retire on a ranch, adopt a sibling group of childrenÂ and travel with them half the year.
Here are my nominees:
Fabiola of My Heart of Mexico
Danielle Isom of Making Time
Rocio Chavez of Your Sassy Self
Marisa Hernandez of MexiMoments
Claudia Batres-Flores of Sour Then Sweet
Victoria Fillippo of Filippo & Gamboa
Carmen Amelia Singleton of Hasta Que Llegaste Tu
Jessica Collazo of Elogios a mis Locuras
My Questions for the Nominees
- What do you like most about blogging?
- One song youâ€™ll never stop listing to?
- What things are you most grateful for in your life?
- If you were offered an all expenses paid vacation to one destination in the world, where would it be and what would you do there?
- Whatâ€™s the story behind your blogâ€™s name?
- Whatâ€™s the dumbest thing you’ve ever done?
- Where are you from, and what is the most common stereotype or misconception about your home town/region/country?
- How do you like your coffee?
- What is your favorite childhood memory?
- WhatÂ excuse are you making about something that you know you can overcome?
- If you could go back and thank one person in your past, who would it be and why?
I’m looking forward to reading all about my nominees!
I’d also love to know your answer to question #6. Have at it!
Congratulations! It’s always an honor to be recognized by those in our industry.
Thanks Marian 🙂 It was definitely fun too.
Congratulations on your nomination… I love your answers and know more about you and all what you have achieved!! It’s really amazing (specially the full time travelling!)
Thank you for the nomination!!! Omg… I feel so flattered that you, with all your experience and knowledge, chose me… a newbie!
I’ll ge t it answer very soon!! 🙂
Thanks Victoria, I’m excited to read your answers!
Congrats! Thank you for giving me more info and a breakdown on this award. I saw it online but was curious what it was!
Congratulations! This is fantastic! Be proud and enjoy the moment! Maybe one day I’ll make the nominations list! 🙂
Congrats! I also am guilty of shutting off movies mid way through!
Aaack! That would drive me bananas.
Congratulations! I love the support bloggers give other bloggers…it really makes what we do all worthwhile!
This is so awesome, Congrats!!! I absolutely love the advice you would give your younger self. I wish more of us knew then what we know now!
They do say youth is wasted on the young.
Danay!!! What have you done?!! Are you gonna make write my first post in English?! 😉 thanks for the nomination! Also, I SO want to own a ranch one day too! Is that in or something?! And Oregon is definitely one of my favorite places too. Let’s have neighboring ranches in The outskirts of Bend, OR. Deal?
Hah, #1 Write it in Spanish if you feel like it! and #2, Let’s do it!
Danay, Congrats & loved reading your intro. It’s great to see that even though we work virtually, there’s still a very strong community among bloggers. Love your questions & still thinking about where I’d go for that all expenses paid trip.
Oh my goodness!! This is so exciting!! Congratulations and yes!! You are awesome!!
Yayyyy!!! I love the post, it made me laugh and brought some tears to my eyes. I learnedso many things about you and your blog deserved it cause it is super encouraging and makes me laugh! Loved it! It was fun too.
Aww thanks Tabitha 😉
Congratulations on the nomination and fantastic responses 🙂
It’s was fun, love to read the your answerr
those are great questions. some i would have to think about before i could answer. thanks for sharing.
What a wonderful recognition! You are so deserving of it! I really love how much you care for children and want to help and adopt! that’s amazing on top of all the other things you do!!!! Thank you so much the nomination, I’m so humbled and excited to participate!
What a good post I enjoy reading this and Congratulations! I bet you had an awesome experience there.
Hey Danay, congratulations. You are really the sunshine and deserves the award. I am happy to learn about you through this article.
Thanks Vishal, it was fun to write.
Congratulations for the nomination! You know what, even without this nomination, you are already awesome 🙂
Awww thanks Blair 😉
I love this such a cool idea and also very motivating. What is my answer to No 6, marrying my second husband 🙁 Congrats on your win and also your nomination. Being nominated is a win in itself.
Danay, this is so interesting! I’m happy to get to know you better after this post, and now I understand why you are always in a different place. Thank you so much for sharing, this is very inspiring!
Thanks Alex, yes I tend to get around a bit lol.
Hey congratulations on the award – so nice to find out a bit more about you. Awesome that you get to travel the world full time – that’s my dream…one day!
Congratulations on your nomination. I enjoyed reading about you and how you want to own a ranch. We have dreams of that also.
This seems like a really cool way to get to know more about your favorite bloggers. It’s also awesome that blogging has allowed youand your family to travel extensively. That’s the dream!
Congratulations!! What a spectacular accomplishment!
I laughed when I read your answers because my husband is also addicted to B-movies. Specifically, horror B-movies. We used to watch them together, but one day I just couldn’t do it. I couldn’t take it anymore! 🙂 lol
Thanks a lot for nominating my blog. I must confess I have a really awful track record for accepting blogging awards, but I’ll try to write the post sooner than later. 😛
Congrats to you!
Fabi that’s hilarious. He is, thus far, the only person I have heard of with the same issue. I can’t wait to read your responses.
I have been blogging for about the same amount of time. While it seems isolating prior to blogging, this is proof that we have to have a network and support to keep going. Thanks for sharing a peek into who the blogger is behind the screen!
I’m also happiest in nature 🙂
I’ll have to check out some of the Latinx blogs you nominated because I need to get more involved with that part of my culture.
Question, do you know the difference between this Sunshine award and this (for which I was nominated): https://paralleldichotomy.com/2017/05/04/liebster-blog-award/
They sound awfully similar…like exactly the same actually ???
She sounds like an amazing person. It’s also amazing that she nominated you!
Congrats on getting nominated! I love the questions, they really help us to get to know you better.
congratulation for your nomination, you so deserve it. It’s all your hard work. I am so sorry to hear abt the loss of your brother. He is in the better place now. And death sometime teach us how to really live.
Thank you Anmaria 🙂
sounds like a really cool award. Good luck on future blogging. i love the job, nothing else like it.
Congratulations on this award. I have been seeing this award alot on different bloggers pages but don’t really know what it stands for. It was nice to get an idea!